CAREER EDUCATION. Acceptance is the answer to all our problems

Many people today have lost their jobs after decades of service; many others suffer within jobs who can see no way out.
To survive a loss painful work – in fact, any kind of painful loss – we must come to some acceptance. As an acceptance of find in the midst of loss of work, humiliation, shame, despair, fear, pain and uncertainty can invoke?
As we accept financial insecurity threaten our lives and our family? Rarely can we skip our painful feelings, wave a wand and create new jobs in a short time. Often, we want difficult life situations be some other way.
Yet if we resisted accepting the situation and our mixed bag of emotions inevitably we end up fighting ourselves and the world. Acceptance is the path back to peace.
As they say in the big book of Alcoholics Anonymous, "acceptance is the answer to all my problems today ... I can't find any peace of mind until I do not accept such a person, place, thing or situation as being exactly like it is suppose to be at this time. Nothing, absolutely nothing happens in the world of God by mistake ".
We strive in peaceful acceptance. Come to acceptance is often a volatile emotional journey that occur over time. To begin the journey to acceptance tries to let go of analyzing or trying to "understand" the "why" of the situation and try to trust.
Realizing every experience in life has a purpose – although beyond our know – helps pave the way for acceptance. Only what we can not solve or understand in our hearts moves us closer to acceptance. As we aspire to accept the challenges of life, grace presents us with a measure of comfort and consolation.
"My life is but a webbing between me and my Lord.
I can't choose the colors that he works constantly.
He quotes weaveth pain and foolish pride
Forget that sees, the top and bottom.
Not until the frame is silently and shuttles cease to fly
God unroll the canvas and explain why the reason.
Dark threads are more valuable in the hands of a skilled Weaver
As the strands of gold and silver in the model predicted. "
Author unknown
The blessing of job loss
One day, world-renowned psychologist, Carl Jung, had a friend to arrive at his door are entirely shocked by that day lost his job. Carl Jung, he invited his friend in his home and said, (my paraphrase), "come. I'll open a bottle of Champaign well and celebrate as surely some great good will come from this loss. "
Losing a job or feeling trapped within a process, it's probably a blessing in disguise even though at this time the loss or fear can seem insurmountable. When I lost my two retail stores after ten years of activity, my $ 100,000, my marriage and my self-esteem, I thought that this was one of the worst things that could happen to me in this life.
Now, with the clarity of hindsight, I see the loss of my stores like divine intervention. To lose everything that I thought that I valued, I discovered what was really important to me. I lost everything but I found.
"Three defeats earthly
bringing the gain for the soul:
loss of a friend,
loss of health and
loss of wealth. "
"A compilation of the triads," Volume I John Wright F.
Acceptance opens the doors of life
In their book, "life lessons," Elisabeth Kübler-Ross and David Kessler, "change ... usually starts with a door closing, a final, a completion, a loss, a death. Then we enter a period uncomfortable, this completion of mourning and live in uncertainty of prospects. This period is difficult.
But just when we feel we cannot take anymore, something new emerges: a reintegration, a reinvestment, a new beginning. A door opens. If you fight, you fight change your whole life. That's why we need to find a way to embrace change, or at least accept. "
Through aspire to accept the conditions of life, we begin to move from feeling like a victim and blame the world around us. We get glimpses of a greater purpose to work in our lives.
Now accepting through our lives, we learn to be gentle with ourselves, even amidst the storms of life. Through acceptance we can find a measure of peace at this time. In this document, we build the foundation of a life lived and build bridges to a new future.
Author Credits :: about the author: Teresa Proudlove is the Publisher/editor of your life by offering support and inspiration for your work and life. Teresa was stimulating, supporting and driving more than 3000 people on their path lifework for fourteen years leading workshops and authoring many articles published internationally.
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